[breaking] Turn off providesModuleNodeModules by default

Sets the default value of `providesModuleNodeModules` to an empty array, since Haste is going away from RN. **This is a breaking change and metro and metro-config's major semver needs to be bumped.**

Test Plan: Modify my copy of metro-config under RN so that `providesModuleNodeModules` defaults to an empty array, start the packager with `--reset-cache`, and load the RNTester bundle successfully.

packages/metro-config/src/defaults/defaults.js

@@ -54,7 +54,7 @@ exports.moduleSystem = require.resolve('metro/src/lib/polyfills/require.js');
 
 exports.platforms = ['ios', 'android', 'windows', 'web'];
 
-exports.providesModuleNodeModules = ['react-native', 'react-native-windows'];
+exports.providesModuleNodeModules = [];
 
 exports.DEFAULT_METRO_MINIFIER_PATH = 'metro-minify-uglify';